Creating Instead of Criticizing

Create or Criticize?

Create or Criticize?

In a recent fiery Email exchange with Gawker employee Ryan Tate, Apple CEO Steve Jobs closed with a bold and meaningful question. Tate had been arguing with Jobs over a number of Apple’s recent policies. In response to Tate’s critical opposition, jobs wrote:

“By the way, what have you done that’s so great? Do you create anything, or just criticize others work and belittle their motivations?”

Regardless of whether you’re a fan of Jobs and Apple, the point stands on it’s own. Our modern society has created an overwhelming surplus of editors but a shortage of creators. This extreme imbalance between creators and consumers causes numerous issues. One is an extreme sense of entitlement which stems from a misunderstanding of the creative process. Since content is so easily and massively available, we assume that it is easy to create. We end up replacing respect for the creator with an expectation that our wants should be catered to without any contribution on our part. This disregard discourages today’s potential Einstein‘s and Edison’s. We learn at a young age, in our modern world, that to create takes enormous (and often unappreciated) risk.

Many Consumers, but few Creators

Many Consumers, but few Creators

Now, despite a desire to change the tides of our society, and aside from my own views of our degeneration, the real reason I’m writing this is because there’s a principal that all creative types have learned: creating is the most rewarding and fulfilling experience we can have as humans. Opposed to this is also the principal that to destroy is always easier than to create. Thus, we’re constantly betwixt two choices, namely happiness and ease.

Happiness vs. Ease

Happiness vs. Ease

You can very easily choose to take the low road and use your energy to criticize and belittle. It takes little or no personal investment so you lose nothing. Where nothing is given, nothing is returned. Essentially, the creative process is a choice to live by the law of the harvest; you reap what you sow! Of course, you can decide not to sow, since that requires work, and perhaps failure. Then again, if you choose that route you can have no expectation of harvest. Thus, as any who’ve seen the fruit of their labor will tell you, the work is always worth it because some return is always better than no return.

Some return is always better than no return

Some return is always better than no return

An important consideration: we should plant the seeds that are going to yield a crop we desire. Nobody would plant a salsa garden if they hated Mexican food. In like manner, we do not all need to exercise creativity by becoming painters. Though for some painting may be the most rewarding endeavor, for others it may be just as fulfilling to write, to build, to invent, or to bring people together. Creating a solid human being by raising a child is just as much a creative process as writing a song, but they are very different.

So, my challenge to you is to choose to create rather than destroy.

Look at your opportunities to build.

Decide what you would like to produce, roll your sleeves up, and get to work TODAY.

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  • Brooke Self

    I loved this! I completely agree. Sometimes creating is such a “risk” that we would rather not take, but in the end that path is much more fulfilling and worthwhile. And in the end, of course, it comes down to actually putting forth hard work and effort.

  • http://youshouldbe.net Gdub

    Thanks for your comment. I think, very often, we inflate the risk beyond what it actually is. Very few of us are destined to be ridiculed out of society, you know?

  • Joe Palmer

    I like this. Good job Aaron. We all have some sort of talent in my opinion and I think we can all be better at maximizing our talents we have. But that's what I think.

  • Jennie

    I like this! Something very important happens to a person when they outwardly express what is inside their head/heart through creating. Also, something happens to someone who is criticized for what they express. Either they stand by what they created more, or it causes them to reevaluate what they created. Both can be humbling and growing experiences. Sure it can be comfortable to not open one's self up to that criticism but its so crippling!

  • http://youshouldbe.net Gdub

    Jennie, I think that criticism is an important aspect of gauging the quality of what you've created, but it's not the only standard by which we can measure. Some critics are more valuable than others.

    Using an example from the post, I'm sure Steve Jobs takes advice from those he admires and respects, and I'm sure they are people who've created things he appreciates, and who've proven successful. On the other hand, there's no time to listen to any criticism that's coming from someone with nothing to show, with no experience themselves. Of course, that can be hard to do, and that's a subject I should probably write about.

  • Jennie

    I agree! I was thinking about a person I saw being criticized by someone who was as close to being an expert in the field that they were dealing with as can be. That person kept defending the work until the death and I kept thinking how important it is to know when to listen and when to defend. P.S. Yes, I am talking about Dancing With the Stars. jk. I am not a fan of people who criticize due to any number of shallow reasons something that they aren't even familiar with. Yeah, sorry I didn't really explain what I was referring to.