Some may mistakingly suppose that I write according to my strengths. That’s a mistake. Many of these principals and practices are concepts I’m slogging through, working at, and trying to absorb for myself. Much of this I willingly acknowledge as personal shortcomings. This post is one of those; I’m still figuring it out. I have, however, learned some important things along the way. Intimacy is one of those words that could easily elicit negative reactions from readers. Great, this is going to be about reproduction, pornography, or some other chastity-based topic. Thanks, but I’d rather not. There is, however, an important facet of intimacy that suffers from oversimplification. For our purpose we will define intimacy is a closeness and familiarity in human interaction. Thus, an ecclesiastical leader may have some form of intimacy in their knowledge of your private struggles. Or, your parents may have an intimate understanding of your desires and hopes for the future.
Continue reading Keeping Intimacy Appropriate → To me, the penultimate writing utensil (pun definitely intended) is the Pilot Precise V5. Many artists and writers love and revere this pen for it’s simple design, consistent flow of ink, fine and reliable point, and it’s seemingly inexhaustible supply. The pen has a long needle-like tip, which allows for application at extreme angles, making quick, fine lines, possible, while still allowing for bold heavy lines when used at less of an angle. The fact that this pen allows me to do what I need in flexible ways, makes it my go-to choice. Like this pen, we can become valuable instruments in the hands of the Lord. 
Continue reading An Instrument in God’s Hands →
The D-word. It’s more taboo then Voldemort and more frightening too. Perhaps the only thing more frightening than dating is the surrounding social pressure. Like riding a bike, you can only effectively discuss dating so much without actually trying it. You must simply take a chance, hop on, and hold on, wobbling while trying your best to avoid hitting the ground. Knowing that true doctrine will inspire a change in behavior¹, this entry will not discuss the how-to’s, but the why’s of dating. Imagine you’re hiking a mountain trail when, without warning, you step into the path of a large and startled rattlesnake. Before you can make a decision the serpent snaps at your leg and you feel it’s fangs dig into you skin as the warm venom pushes it’s way into your blood stream.  Photo by: Mike Johnston
Continue reading Taking Counsel → Entering Gethsemane, Christ urged his closest friends to come and watch with him¹. The act about to take place was the most sacred and important event in the history of the earth, and Jesus’ desire was that his friends be with him. He must have treasured their relationship. Joseph Smith said that, “friendship is one of the grand fundamental principles of ‘Mormonism’.” ² An understanding of the importance of relationships and the ability to build meaningful connections are invaluable in a productive and happy life. 
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